Okay, how do you go back to posting pretty (I hope) pictures of crafting and humble bragging about the state of your stash(es) when the world is still crazy?
The answer is you don’t. I know it’s a cliché, but there must be a new normal.
These past few weeks in the aftermath of George Floyd, the brouhaha over statues and the continuation of COVID 19 lunacy that we are gripped in has left me unsettled. So I took the time to figure out what I will do next.
I’ve been doing a lot of reading, listening and talking. I’ve been learning about how the key activists are planning to combat this blight of systemic racism that taints not only the US but pretty much every nation. I’ve read about the protests and some of the proposed action. See my new girl crushes amongst those I’m learning from. Ijeoma Oluo’s book ‘So You Want to Talk About Race’ was the first I tackled and gives a great entry point if you are wondering where to start learning. I just discovered Layla Saad’s podcast where she talks about White Supremacy, it was a remarkably uplifting experience to hear her talking with great positivity about what we need to do.
For me one of the critical issues emerging is the significant impact on Black people’s mental health. On my mental health. I have been discovering the work of activists such as Rachel Cargle who are DOING THINGS which are helping Black people in the USA survive the mental and emotional impact of white supremacy.
I’m seeing this crisis through a UK lens so I was delighted to come across a project here which is doing similar work. Black Minds Matter UK @blackmindsmatter.uk have raised more than £500,000 in a month to provide mental health support for BAME people in need here in the UK. that translates to about 700 people. If you’re thinking of donating somewhere, this could be the cause.

I’ve also realised I have to look a little closer to home as while a lot of the visible work is being done in the US and we have our own nuanced package to be dismantled here in the UK. Information and resources have not been so easy to find so I am focusing on finding UK equivalents to learn about and share.
I have started talking to a few people close to me about what is happening and how they will act going forward. Also I have been reaching out to new people.
I retired from teaching last year and in some ways I’m glad but in others, I feel I have unfinished business, especially now. I spent most of my teaching career as the only Black teacher in a school with only a handful of Black kids. I was busy getting by. A year ago (already) I worked in a school in my city which, although still quite white, had more a far more diverse student population. I was introduced to the organisation BAMEed which is focused on representation within the teaching body and how increasing the diversity of educators could have a significant impact on the experiences of both BAME and white students and feed forward into society. I shared what I think about the importance of representation here what seems like a long time ago now.

So this is the new normal me. I will be posting about sewing, I have a queue of drafts simmering away, but I will be learning and sharing what I want the new normal to be in all I do.
Stick with me.
Thanks for stopping by

Thanks for sharing – I am with you.
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Thank you x
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Thanks so much for the link to Black Minds Matter. Things absolutely cannot go back to normal, normal is the wrong way until there is a new and just normal.
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Hi, I’m going to share as much as I can to keep the momentum going, you are right we cannot go back to the way it was.
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Wonderful post!
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Thank you, I’m doing what little I can x
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I have started reading and learning and as a retired white teacher in a school where 40 % were Asian I have had to confront some uncomfortable issues in myself. I thought I was teaching from a stance of inclusivity and everyone was equal. It is through my reading that I realise I was so badly informed and I am determined to change the way I think. I have a lot of work to do and just wish I had begun this journey earlier but my whit privilege kept me dumb. It is no excuse and I want to change. Thankyou for your blog.
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Hello Angela, thank you for coming over. In our profession, we prided ourselves on ‘making a difference’ I think I did, and I bet you did too, but there’s more to be done and I too wish I had had the capacity to do some of this work then. This is such a complex, deep-seated and insidious problem that it will take a lot of work to dismantle. I keep saying to everyone who is engaging that it’s a good start. We are relying on you to stick it out even though it will be very uncomfortable. thanks for being here.
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I agree and support you, Elaine – going back to “normal” would be a step backwards and erase the hard work of activists who have brought us to this point.
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Yes Siobhan, even before this crisis came to a head, I have been feeling that we have been in a retrograde moment. I came of age in the 70s and 80s and as I grew into my adulthood I witnessed amazing changes here such as the Race Relations Act and the Sex Discrimination Act amongst others and I thought I was living In the most progressive time moving towards equality. In recent years it feels like the clock is behind turned backwards and that we are in danger of losing everything gained then. I can only hope we can all open our eyes and stop that backwards movement setting in.
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